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I used to share a blog with Melissa, but she's been MIA for a few months, so I made it all mine! Random thoughts on my every day life to bore you with.

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

The counselor is...confused

I was googling all kinds of things because I was trying to think of a word. The word I was trying to think of was placebo, but somehow in my searchings I came across a blog called I might equate it to a woman-hating blog. I guess any person can write a blog about what makes them miserable, I would probably say that this guy (and the men on there) should think about the women they are choosing to spend their lives with, and how they have interpreted what a good mate would be so poorly before they blast all women, since you are in control of your feelings and your wife can't MAKE you miserable. Why not make yourself happy rather than spend all your time blaming some relationship gone wrong for all your woes? Hurt is under anger and this dude must have some serious pain he isn't dealing with. I mean, does this guy even WANT to date? Because if I started dating a guy and found out this was his blog I would be afraid and appalled. I am all for assertiveness and expressing yourself and doing what makes you happy, but in my brief read some of the things the guys were saying just scare me - they sort of make wives sound like property. They make all women sound derragned and evil, and I'm sure some women do the stuff he mentions, but it's more like he's promoting the continuation of ingorance, non-communication and self-centeredness in relationships than collaboration and growth. He doesn't seem to understand that women are human, not perfect, and can't read men's minds (yeah, the same way men can't read ours). I don't get what this guy wants, but he sounds really bitter and scary. This blog is sort of all about promoting what is wrong in relationships (not communicating, no empathy, no understanding) rather than something to actually help someone in a relationship. I could go on and on, but I really just wanted to share my confusion.

On another, lighter note, I just realized that I've been drinking my milk that expired September 24th. Gross? Maybe....I didn't notice it though so who knows.


Blogger Something's Gotta Give said...

Ummm, wow. That web site is ridiculous. I agree with everything you said. Geez.

I also think you should throw the milk away...

1:12 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sure we love to date and we adore women, and many of us have girlfriends. Just NOT American Women.

American Women just don't do it for us anymore. Many men are realizing this everyday.

Enjoy your feminism and your pointing the finger at us men as being women haters (which is not true). If it makes you feel better.

Finding a good American woman is like finding a tootsie roll in a pool of turds. Sure it can be done, just not worth the effort, when foreign women are so much better (values, beliefs, loyalty etc).

Feminism ruined things for the lot of you. It's sad.

2:51 PM  

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